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Which pattern is really driving it? Decode it in about 3 minutes.

In about 3 minutes, see your exact pattern, your level on the 7-stage map, and the one trigger underneath it. Free and private — you only pay if you want the full plan.

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★ THE MIRROR · BEFORE YOU TAKE THE QUIZ

Which one sounds like you?

Your archetype is what the quiz will name precisely. Here are four of the eleven.

Two men at the same level can have completely different archetypes. That's why generic apps miss.

★ WHY THIS ISN'T JUST A SCORE

Two men, same number — different problem.

Most tests hand you one "addiction score." This one reads you on two separate dials — how much it controls you, and how much it clashes with your values — because the research is clear they aren't the same thing. One man watches daily and is fine; another barely watches and is in agony. Your result names which dial is actually yours, and builds the plan around it.

⟶ A LOOK AT THE RESULT

What buyers actually see.

Not a sales page disguised as a diagnosis. A document you came for — your level, your pattern signature, the plan built for both.

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YOUR LEVEL IV
of VII · Sarhani staging
The Inflection Point
Pattern signature
Shame Spiral
Strong
Lonely Escape
Clear
Empty Hours
Present
Your 21+90 plan
DAY 1
Phone outside bedroom tonight
DAY 3
Vision: write your 5-year self
DAY 21
Phase 1 complete
DAY 60
The flatline — push through

VERSE FOR THIS MOMENT

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا اسْتَعِينُوا بِالصَّبْرِ وَالصَّلَاةِ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ

"O you who believe — seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed Allah is with the patient." — Quran 2:153

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★ WHAT YOU ACTUALLY GET

Four things change. One at a time.

  1. 01

    Know why you keep relapsing

    The exact archetype + level + pattern signature behind it. No more "I just have no willpower."

  2. 02

    Know what to do during an urge

    A guided 90-second protocol you reach for instead of the phone. Backed by a verse for the moment.

  3. 03

    Know how to recover after a slip

    Break the shame-loop the same hour it starts. The plan continues. The count restarts with grace.

  4. 04

    Know how to rebuild discipline

    21 days to break the loop. 90 days to rewire. Daily check-ins, milestone badges, a commitment countdown you set yourself.

All delivered through: a personalized 21+90 day plan, the library with 6 diagrams + 40+ verses, the always-on SOS, daily check-in, milestone badges, and a self-set commitment countdown. Bilingual EN + AR.

What synthesis revealed

Three insights that change how you think about this — drawn from clinical research, neuroscience, and 16+ hours of recorded specialist conversations.

🧠 NEUROSCIENCE — REVELATION 1

Your "feeling flat" isn't depression. It's a dopamine debt.

Every spike from porn drops your dopamine baseline for days afterward. That dull, "nothing feels good" sensation between sessions? It's not who you are — it's a neurochemical state that lifts on its own once the spikes stop. Many men notice their baseline returning over the weeks and months that follow.

— Huberman Lab · Stanford School of Medicine

"Any behavior or substance that stimulates a lot of dopamine and is easily accessed without effort is potentially problematic."

— Andrew Huberman. The one-sentence test you can apply to porn, infinite scroll, junk food, and slot machines for the rest of your life.

🌀 CLINICAL — REVELATION 2

The shame isn't stopping the next session. It's causing it.

Most men think shame is the price they pay for relapse. It's often the opposite: shame produces stress → stress produces craving → craving produces the act → the act produces more shame. This is the shame-feedback loop, and it's one of the most powerful engines of compulsive use. Breaking it isn't about willpower. It's about interrupting the loop somewhere — and the quiz tells you exactly where to cut it for your pattern.

— Synthesis from Sarhani clinical protocol · 14 transcripts analyzed

🔬 CONTRARIAN — REVELATION 3

Most men know their level. They don't know their pattern.

Naming "Level 4" doesn't change anything — anyone can guess roughly where they are. What actually changes things is naming the 3-5 specific patterns running you: the shame-loop, the boredom-trigger, the late-night isolation window, the post-success self-sabotage. Two men at Level 4 with different pattern fingerprints need completely different protocols. That's what generic apps miss. That's what the assessment surfaces.

— Minlyom design principle

⚡ WHY THIS IS HARDER THAN DRUGS

The 3 M's

From Col. Al-Sarhani's clinic. Why porn structurally evades the safety nets that catch other addictions.

M

Mutāḥ · متاح

Available

No legal restriction in most countries. No prescription. No age check that works. Free to access from any device, anywhere, anytime.

M

Mutawaffir · متوفّر

Accessible

No dealer needed. No street network. No risk of being seen at a pharmacy. The supply line is the phone already in your pocket.

M

Majhūl · مجهول

Anonymous

No smell. No urine test. No track marks. No physical evidence. You cannot do a blood test for a porn addict. Detection requires admission — which shame prevents.

Drugs have smells, tests, dealers — porn has none. That's why the loop persists where other addictions get caught. And why this requires a different kind of intervention.

The voices behind the program

Minlyom synthesizes 15 hours of recorded specialist conversations. These are the actual people whose work is in here.

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Dr. Andrew Huberman

Stanford School of Medicine · Neuroscience

▶ 7.4M+ subscribers

Dopamine baseline · withdrawal timeline · environment design

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Dr. K (Alok Kanojia)

Harvard psychiatrist · HealthyGamerGG

▶ 3.3M+ subscribers

Scheduled-window strategy · meaning-driven recovery · ADHD overlap

🧠

Dr. Trish Leigh

Cognitive neuroscientist · neurofeedback specialist

▶ 250K+ subscribers

3 transcripts cited · porn-brain-fog · ADHD link · fastest-quit method

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Dr. Jordan Peterson

Clinical psychologist · identity & meaning

▶ 8.7M+ subscribers

Identity reinvention · shame as signal · self-mastery

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Waddah Podcast · Col. Al-Sarhani

Arabic podcast · Saudi counseling advisor

Major Arabic recovery resource

7-level framework · Level-4 inflection · 4-domain damage model

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Dr. Mohamed Abdel Gawad

Waee/Aware team founder · Islamic recovery framework

Fahem podcast · Oct 2024

Time management in recovery · faith-as-muscle · environment design

Minlyom does not represent these specialists or imply endorsement. Their work is publicly available and cited transparently. The synthesis into a single bilingual program is what Minlyom adds. Tap any card to go directly to the source video.

The 7 Levels — and the man at each one

Most men don't know which level they're at — because the change is gradual. Tap any level to see the man at it, what's actually happening, and how hard the escape gets.

Recognized as Compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder in the WHO's ICD-11 since 2018. Porn is its #1 vector.

1
Curiosity1–2 clips per year · the wiring has begun

Yusuf, 19: "It's once a year. I'm fine. I just got curious." What Yusuf doesn't know: his brain has filed away a supernormal stimulus. The dopamine pathway is now mapped. Each return reinforces it.

Left unaddressed, early curiosity usually deepens into habit — the window to stop easily is widest right here, but it doesn't stay open.

Escape difficulty:
Easy — weeks
2
Habit FormingOnce a month · tolerance begins

Khalil, 22: "I do it once a month. I have it under control. It's not even a thing." What Khalil doesn't notice: thoughts of it now appear between sessions. The "control" he feels is the gap between dopamine spikes — and that gap is starting to feel restless.

Many men sit at Level 2 for many months. A 21-day clean break here is highly effective — and it gets harder the longer it's left.

Escape difficulty:
Easy — 21 days
3
Near DailyThe habit is fully formed · real life starts to dull

Bilal, 25: "My hobbies don't excite me like they used to. Conversations feel slow. I assume that's just adulthood." What Bilal doesn't realize: his dopamine baseline has measurably dropped. Real life isn't boring — his brain has been overstimulated past its design.

At daily or near-daily use, withdrawal commonly shows up in the first week of any quit attempt — this is where the 21+90 day structure becomes necessary, not optional.

Escape difficulty:
Moderate — 30+ days
4
⚠️ Fantasies AppearThe brain is leaking · critical inflection point

Omar, 27: "Fantasies appear during prayer. During work meetings. Even in dreams. I'm losing my mind." Omar isn't losing his mind. His brain has been so saturated that it now produces internally what it consumed externally.

Addiction specialist Dr. Al-Sarhani describes Level 4 as a turning point in his framework. Half-measures tend to fail from here; a serious 90+ day low-exposure plan is what works. This is the line where the work gets real.

Escape difficulty:
Hard — 90+ days
5
Life Drops4-domain damage now visible to others

Faris, 30: "My boss called me out for missing details. My wife asked why I'm distant. My best friend stopped inviting me out. I tell myself it's stress at work." What Faris doesn't admit: physical, psychological, social, and familial domains are all showing visible decline.

At Level 5, the cost has crossed from internal to visible. Left unaddressed it tends to deepen over the years that follow. Recovery is very much still possible — it just calls for the full plan, ideally with professional support.

Escape difficulty:
Hard — 6 months
6
Marriage DamageED · loss of bonding · marriages crack here

Ahmad, 33: "She thinks I don't love her anymore. I can't tell her my body doesn't respond. I don't know how to come back from this." Ahmad isn't broken — his oxytocin bonding circuit has atrophied. The brain literally cannot feel emotionally connected during real intimacy. This is medical.

At Level 6 the strain often reaches the relationship — ED in younger men, and a partner who can feel "not enough" because tolerance now demands what porn shows. Recovery here usually needs professional support, the full plan, and often the spouse involved — and it does happen, typically over many months.

Escape difficulty:
Very hard — 1 year
7
Full CompulsionThis level rarely walks itself into treatment

Level 7 is the one clinics see least — not because few reach it, but because few seek help. Compulsion has largely overridden choice. This calls for intensive, professional, dual-diagnosis treatment and a full lifestyle rebuild — and recovery is still on the table.

Recovery IS possible at Level 7 — but the man at Level 7 must accept that hiding any longer will cost more than admitting. The Saudi Public Prosecution has explicitly protected the privacy of those seeking addiction treatment by law. This is a medical condition. Treat it like one.

Escape difficulty:
Inpatient — 1-2 years

Find out which level you're at →

⚠ A THOUGHT EXPERIMENT

"Take identical twins. Same upbringing. Same environment. One becomes addicted to porn at 16. By age 24, they are different people — different personalities, different capabilities, different futures."

— Col. Mohammed Al-Sarhani's clinical framing

That gap is what this costs. And what recovery returns.

Why this exists

I'm not going to pretend I'm a doctor. I'm not. I'm a Muslim man who spent years caught in this — promising every Ramadan I'd stop, slipping every Eid, hiding from the people I loved. The shame was worse than the act.

I built Minlyom because every app I tried either talked down to me as a "porn addict" or sold me a £15-a-month subscription forever. Nothing combined the actual neuroscience (dopamine, withdrawal, the 7-level clinical staging) with what our deen already teaches (lower the gaze, return immediately after a slip, build the muscle through worship). One needed the other.

I'm staying anonymous because so are you. That's the whole point. But there's a real human on the other end of the support email. You write — I write back, usually within a day.

— A brother, الإمارات

⟶ HOW THE 3-MINUTE ASSESSMENT WORKS

No surprises. Here's the path.

  1. 01

    27 honest questions

    One per screen. Honest answers. Roughly 3 minutes.

  2. 02

    Find your archetype

    The pattern fingerprint the quiz names. One of 11.

  3. 03

    See your level

    Your tier on the 7-level clinical framework. Specific. Honest.

  4. 04

    Get your 21+90 day map

    Personalized to your archetype + your situation. Unlocked once.

★ FOUNDING COHORT

Open to the first 50 members.

Real testimonials live here once our first cohort completes their 111 days. We don't fake quotes.

Direct line to me

Email me anytime through the program. Usually a same-day reply.

Priority on improvements

Your feedback shapes the next iteration. Founding members get every update at no extra cost — forever.

Same price, more access

99 AED one-time, no subscription. The price doesn't go up after the first 50. The access does.

A pact, not a transaction: you commit to the work, I commit to building this with you.

One price. Everything.

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≈ $27 USD · one-time · lifetime access

One-time. Lifetime access. No subscription. No surprises.

  • Your exact level (1–7) with full clinical breakdown
  • 11-pattern personal map
  • Full 21+90 day recovery program
  • Complete library (8 chapters, 50+ topics)
  • SOS urge-surfing tool always-on
  • English + Arabic, switch anytime
  • 7-day refund, no questions asked
  • All future updates included free
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Honest answers to honest questions

Is this really one-time? No subscription tricks?
Yes. One payment of 99 AED ($27). You have it forever. We never charge again. No "free trial" that auto-bills. No subscription. We made this choice specifically because the #1 complaint about every other app in this space is hidden billing.
What if it doesn't work for me?
Email support within 7 days. Full refund. No questions. No "why are you leaving" form. You're a human, not a metric.
Is it private? Will anyone know?
Your quiz answers and progress stay on your device — we never see them, and no account is needed. If you choose magic-link sync, we store your result and the email you give us, used only to send your login link (never sold, never for ads). Payment runs through Stripe. We use cookie-free analytics that can't identify you.
Will quitting actually fix my focus, sleep, mood?
Honest answer: probably yes — but not by magic. Quitting plus the lifestyle changes the program teaches (better sleep, movement, connection, environment design) is what does it. Most men report clear changes within 1–4 weeks, with a "flatline" around month 2–3 that passes. The brain is remarkably adaptable — with consistent effort, real change is the norm.
Do I have to be religious for this?
No. Islamic teachings are presented as ONE valid lens alongside neuroscience and behavior design. Skip the faith sections entirely if you want. Most of the program works on real human mechanisms.

3 minutes. Honest answer. Real plan.

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